Working Woman in Pakistan!!

From last few years women are stepping out to pursue their career, follow their passion, achieve their  dreams. Women now be seen in almost all fields of life, e.g. bankers, company executives, politician, sales, marketing, etc. today women are not less than man and they support their families equally as men do. These women are like double edged sword. They work outside the house, and can’t get rid of the responsibilities of household chores too. Men on the other hand, aren’t supposed to help with chores. In short, if women can afford to get a house help they’re lucky, otherwise theirs is a difficult life.

The real issue is beside accepting the women as coworker/ colleagues there are many barriers they have to face to prove themselves as equal:

  1. Wages and increments:

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It is generally observed that women hired in low wage as compare to men. In corporate environment, both gender work equally, both have to pay their bills, but when it comes to promotion, wage, or increment man will be the first preference. In many organization women are rewarded as man, they hired on the low salary scale.

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In Pakistan gender discrimination is very common, every other working woman is facing the same issue. Due to this women are not able to drive the benefit from spreading labor market and technological advancement. Govt or private both sector has the mind set that women are less capable than men, due to which they suffer the most.

  1. Sexual Harassment :

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This is the major issue faced by Pakistani working women, this the most shameful issue faced in our society. They considered as an easy target by colleagues. In office colleagues and higher management harass them by passing inappropriate remarks or making fun of them or in extreme cases they harass them sexually. Usually women opt to remain silent or ignore them because they know that it is of no use to make a complaint against them. Higher management doesn’t support them.

  1. Negative attitudes of male co-workers:

Attitude of male co-workers is sometimes really humiliating and biased. It is considered that women are hired just to add colour to the office environment. Lack of workplace social support, from colleagues and supervisors, it is socially assumed that women has no career focused.they will sooner later leave the job and they don’t have serious attitude towards their career.

  1. In-office politics

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I was the victim of the worst and quite frankly most pathetic office politics in my previous job, I can say this is hands-down the worst factor ever, specially when you’re the sort of a person who just keeps ‘apney kaam sey kaam.’ !

You don’t care who’s getting paid what more or what less, you don’t care who has a problem with who as long as everyone is fine with you and the list goes on and on. The working environment needs to be healthy.

Women  face challenges successfully, women need to be self-confident and should keep herself up to date with the latest happenings in the world of technology. Pakistani enivorniment is changing and improving day by day. Women have to become strong and stand for her own. Hoping sooner the problem will solve for all working women in Pakistan. Another most important thing is to maintain balance in work and personal life.

Also there is a need to educate men and tell them to respect other women like they respect women in their family. They should show flexibility in their attitude and should accept that women can perform even better than them.

 

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NEW COMER IN OFFICE

There is a very common problem faced by people who switch their  jobs or join  a new job , first day at work.

What i think it was the most  toughest day of the entire tenure of job, because  new person  in phase of knowing people over there, observing the attitude and behavior of people in new work place . It is an organization’s   responsibility  to make employee feel welcoming .

An organization has chance to make a good first impression with the new hire, and the first few days will leave a lasting impression. Making new employees feel welcome will result in high employee loyalty and retention and will be reflected in your bottom line.keep-calm-and-enjoy-your-new-office

For that, any company can implant new strategies and plan to make new employee comfortable.

  • Make plan to introduce  the new comers.
  • Train the existing employee to accept the new person with open mind and with friendly environment.3
  • Give a round up to the place briefly.
  • Make an place for socializing with colleague.
  • Define their team before their joining.   
  • Make their work station lively.   inchoo-office-1

However, on the other hand it is very important  that the new person new the appreciate the company`s effort with open arms and tried to merge in the culture of organization.

with wishes best of luck to all out their for new join.

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Socail Media Ethics

Social media is a virtual town hall where people share exchange their point of views and show their grievance. Social media ethics played a vital role for the reader as well. These ethics have been discussed in serval platform. As it is very difficult for any country to monitor and control social media(twitter, facebook,youtube,vimeo etc.) and monitor the uploading of unacceptable content.

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In recent times, people start expressing their concern about misusing of social media through spreading fake news, hate speech and online bullying which are commonly faced by every other individual.

However recently a constructive development took place in US where the social media giants are operating. These platforms are trying to develop their control to address the concern of people within their own country.

Therefore, to quickest easy solution of ethical problem is to proscribe the anonymity on social media. While the expressing opinion can never be undermine, It is not fundamentally right to express one`s opinion anonymously. Hiding behind anonymity showing there have no responsibility for abusing the platform and hate speech. They may be impersonate individuals.

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Pakistan`s government should take the major action against these individuals, although it is a mass task and seem difficult , but not impossible government can implement some sort of inland  verification systems to verify the user and block non verified accounts on. Moreover we as responsible citizen have the responsibility to participate in prohibiting the misuse to social media. Official media account user for example news organization should ensure that only verified user comment on their posts. Mostly official account user are more careful with their language and actions, as they are showing their responsibility towards society.SocialMediaMarketing

I believe all social media user are in favors of my approach and point of view.as one`s action and approach will impact society and improve the quality of social media interaction to a considerable extent.

Relationship <3

we are in the world with a lot of relations. some are close to our hearts and some are not. there are some relation which we find according to our mind, nature and compatibility.

after a certain stage of life you need some one who completes you in

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all manner. finding a person like that on right time is a blessing .when two people fall in love for them world get beautiful and they don’t want anything accepts their loved one. being in love is a wonderful feeling,when any one fell in love he or she find everything nicer.

but the problem in fall in love or being in relationship is honesty and loyalty when  one start cheating on other or start looking for someone else. its terrible for the other when he or she find out , their believe from love and people will break and they never able to love again with the same capacity.

these days we generally find this type of love where no one is certain about their love life, even they are not ready to take stand fro their love and leaving each other are so easy.

please think once when you fell in love!!!!

love is the amazing feeling dont waste for anyone who don’t deserver it

changing ethics

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today i m writing about the dramatical change came in our cultural ethics. our society usually have some cultural background and have some  built in manners but now due to change in the soeity and and so called adaptive cultural people come and get rooted to us change the basic manners of Asian cultural and convert it into west picture

kids have no manner they arise and educated by maids

women have no responsibility of home

man`s are only looking for barbie dolls not for wife who make their life and houses

kids have no respect for grandparent and even children have no time for their old parents

this is the time we need to wake up and spread a word for our culture and save our owing

energy which bring positivity

sun is the symbol of positivity and its showers positive energy whole day and that’s why mostly negative things, problems  ended when sun showed his face to world. Sun heathen up those negative thoughts which evil bring in our mind and his energy burn it out.

On the other hand moon apparently shows peace but it contain negative energy and it releases negativity and its disperses those negative vibes. People never realized how much these negative vibes affect them.SunMoonStars1